Why New Year Resolutions Fail 99% of the TIME

It’s that time again when people are ready to commit to goals. It’s like the freshness of a new year resets everyone to achieve what they want…. *cough*Yeah right! We wish. NYR’s are a temporal state of commitment. One convinces themselves with. “Ooo New Year, New Decade, I’m going to do more of this, less of that, start a new project, lose weight”Why now? Genuine? Why Jan 01?What difference does this day make if we flow through an ever continuous now? Now is the moment to make the change. The moment goal-orientated thoughts or feelings arise, act! No placing the idea into a future-based scenario where the idea/goal makes you feel good. Feel good for taking action now. Create a ripple and watch it wave.Also consider the linguistics. A new year – how long to go before 2021 is old? Do you make old year resolutions then? How long before the energy of a fresh year runs out?Goal setting isn’t just as simple as asking for what you want, or less of something you don’t. We have to position our thoughts and feelings so we align with what is already available to us, which is everything. It doesn’t mean to say you will get everything as it may have never been planned for you.I prefer to view goals as intentions. I am open to allow the universe to provide me opportunities to build upon my intentions. Some people are afraid to veer away [only in mind] from a goal as it could be classed as a side step. Many make goals so specific that they miss opportunities as they don’t align with the goal roadmap. I know some of you are thinking, well, what about SMART goals – S meaning specific. Be specific, but don’t be rigid! Allow water to flow through your plan as you never know, the universe may have an easier, more fruitful, less suffering path for you. Being rigid means you wont see it or action it if you do.Some pointers to contemplate.

• Is my intention set in the present?
• Is my intention framed positively?
• What does it feel like when you already have what you want right now? Amplify that feeling.
• What actions can I take to encourage the universe to reflect my inner world?
• What opportunities are being presented to me?

And my final and probably most important point.We are electro-magnetic beings. We attract what we put emit.If you wish for something because you lack it, you will always be attracted to experiences that amplify that lack. Start with the end-in-mind, NOW. Take ACTION.With love and best wishes,AdamYoutube:https://youtube.com/channel/UC0vhe2dB3Je8DgdDQqxupbAInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/paradox.coaching/