Thinking Love and Choosing Love

When we think of love this is something that is not automatically given to us as an inherent right. It is something we have to learn and teach ourselves over time. We should focus on bringing love to us rather than go looking for love. Love is spontaneous but it can also be built upon. We choose whether we feel love or not and when it flourishes through us.

When we feel the love we should cherish it and enable it to enhance our lives. It is a practical principle on which we can practice and choose to work on if we so wish. If we abandon our feelings of love then the feeling of love also abandons us. It is the most wonderful gift we can share with someone it doesn’t matter who. Therefore we should keep working on it.

Love should be at the front of our minds all of the time as it can have a tendency to define who we are as a person. We tend to know when someone is full of love or negativity. It is a fantastic feeling. Let it flow with your inner thoughts. and feelings for who it is you love. Treat it as a habit and let it grow within you. If you feel love is fading, and the bond you share is becoming distant, think about the bond itself and the history of love it has had it will help to re-energize it.

Remember that we always have the choice as to whether or not we love someone. That is the beautiful thing about it, it is fully within our control. You choose how it makes you feel. You choose how it makes your partner feel. Interact with one another in a way that works for both of you.

Do not let the ego take over. The ego can cause conflict, and try to tell you that you are always right when we all know deep within our hearts that we are not always right and in fact, there are times where we are just stubborn and don’t want to listen or accept responsibility. We must teach ourselves to dismiss it and switch it for love in all circumstances whether right or wrong and heal these interactions.

Finding love sounds harder than it actually is. If you are someone who struggles to find love or even feel love then try this. Ask why? what has gone wrong? what could you change in your life? This will help you to find it within yourself and change the way you think. Understand where it comes from and work together to find the feeling again.

Communication and honesty is always the best policy. This will always create trust and make the bond stronger. Even under negative circumstances that cause the anxiety of losing the love you have or share. Feel the love, Give the love. If you do this you will be surrounded by an energy field of inner contentment. It will help you to rid yourself of negativity and bad feelings within.

We are all human of course and it goes without saying we all feel times where we doubt ourselves and that love is fading away as a result and despite your best efforts it may seem unattainable but be true to yourself. Love is always there. Love is always waiting for you. Let it feel it and love it.