How Does Social and Professional Success Look?

We all get that feeling of confusion sometimes. When two people you see look relatively similar to one another perhaps? yet one is successful and the other one feels although they aren’t. One has everything that they could possibly want whilst the other is always asking themselves ”why they are up there and they themselves are down here.”
Well, firstly the person who believed they were lower had a concern for the other person’s feelings and ours too. The other person would then reply or have the thought that ”they are glad they could help the other person out” which again puts emphasis on themselves being the bigger and better player. This will then create an instant connection which will lead to discomfort but the compliment then alleviates that feeling without a second thought.The second party involved in this, with what you may consider a ”you owe me attitude” This encourages the other person to pay them off in some way meaning there is a feeling that there is no kind of debt owed. When agreed to, this means that you have openly accepted graciously. Had the first question been ”May I ask a small favour?” even years from now we would happily grant it.Another example is where we ask ourselves how confident someone is. This tends to be because we have predicted how the other person is feeling which as a result pushes our own lack of confidence or discomfort to disappear to the back of our minds. We also say things such as ”Wow bet you are glad that’s over” this could be a response to giving a well-needed boost of self-esteem.These are all responses of emotional prediction. With just a few sentences, we can connect with the others around us to make them feel more comfortable. Some people have this distinctive unnamed quality but for the most they do not. Emotional prediction is a complex set of ideas that will predict their own emotions never mind those that they are connecting with.Referencing this information, it would appear that the perception is you must have an emotional prediction to achieve your highest goals. This process involves firstly knowing the emotions you feel, secondly how to properly manage your own predictions, thirdly, what is it you do to motivate yourself, fourth understanding how the emotions of others work, and fifth how to handle relationships effectively. Emotional prediction is another communication layer that enables us to predict ahead of time what someone’s emotions at that moment will react to something that is being said or done.From this, behavior can then be orchestrated according to these reactions which will usually instill confidence and self-respect in those that are around you and connecting with. It will attract people to you which will further boost your self-confidence due to acting sensitively around others and thus getting positive feedback from everyone.The pleasure and pain element impacts all of our relationships whether it be positive or negative. The smallest of things to touch someone’s life and inspire add up but if you continuously give someone enough of the negative feelings i.e if someone says that they want you out of their life but at the same time when they come in to contact with you and leave feeling better, they will rewards you with respect and affection. This does not mean to constantly give compliments that can become a bit cringe right? Modernity has taught us that this does not gain someone’s respect. You must find what psyches them up and work out what gives them high self-esteem and adapt to it. Once this has been achieved, you will be able to predict their emotions and respond sensitively to this which will make people feel connected to you.We should be careful with ego, for this can quickly make judgments such as ”stay away from him/her” or ”that’s too dangerous for me” Its a given that we all want people to respect us and have high-value status amongst communities and be considered a person people look up to. When people look up to us and the thought of your way of dealing with someone gives them high self-esteem also. As you become more sensitive to those emotions it can turn into love towards you. Success is team success not just your own. When you motivate a team or community to success this is what makes you look successful.